What To Do When Clients Say X But They Really Want Y
Nathalie LussierThe following is a short story from my web design freelancing experience that took place in the earlier days of the Internet around the year 2001.
A customer that we’ll call Jack said he wanted a web site with tabs along the top of the screen like Amazon. The problem is that his site did not lend itself well to this model because it was very small and was meant to drive people to call him for his services. It wasn’t that I couldn’t create a site that resembled Amazon, it was more that his true needs were for an easily navigable web site.
He associated Amazon with easy navigation, good style and a professional look. So what he was really looking for deep down was not a specific type of navigation bar, but these three simple things: a website that was professional, easy to navigate and stylish. After I understood his true needs and explained to him that I could arrange for those needs to be met without an Amazon-copycat design, he was delighted. The client ended up doubling my quoted rate because he was so happy with the results!
So what should you do to eliminate the problem of the customer who says one thing but means another?
1. Strip client requests down to their needs, not down to what they think they want. Have you ever had a client say they wanted X, but then after you finished creating X, decided they want Y? That’s a clear signal that what they really want is neither X nor Y, but something deeper from which both X and Y stem from. Figure out what underlying theme or ideas are motivating their changes in opinion or their vagueness. Sometimes simply getting away from a computer or concrete examples and sitting down with a pen and paper to map out their business goals helps.
Working your way back to the issue at hand starting from their lowest level requirements can help you to come up with a solution neither of you had previously thought of. Similarly, working from business goals helps keep doors open and can eliminate any preconceived notions the client might have about the type of final result they are looking for. This gives you more room to be creative and can help make the job more enjoyable for you.
We all know the best clients are those that just give you some guidelines and let you get on with it, but other clients might need a bit of coaching to give you their real requirements and then to let you do your thing.
2. Provide a prototype to give the customer a feel for the final product. There are times when concepts and ideas just don’t translate well and you need to see something tangible. There is one caveat with the prototype method, which is that clients might think the whole product is done and they can just pay you for a few more hours’ work and get their final product. You need to emphasize to your customer that the prototype you are showing them is just that, a mock up and a non-functional representation of what you can do if they approve it.
After you have explained the prototype, you should give them time to play with it or otherwise observe it. If they like what they see, then you struck gold and you can go ahead and continue with the work. Otherwise, you can help guide your client to understanding what it is they want you to change and why. Knowing why they want to make changes is important to your being able to help them reach their business goals.
You may need to iterate and produce more than one prototype version, but at least this way your client is seeing your progress and if the final product is not what they had hoped for, you can quote their requests for changes and let them know that they had the chance to make changes during the creation process but they chose not to.
3. Use your past experience and judgment to convince clients that you are delivering what they want, even if it doesn’t look like what they expected. An example from the book ‘Blink’ by Malcolm Gladwell shows us that people react poorly to new products or designs that they are not familiar with.
In the case of a new chair that Herman Miller designed called the Aeron, the focus groups reacted so badly to the new look that it consistently got bad reviews. Herman Miller had already spent so much time and effort designing the chair, so they went ahead and released it despite the bad reviews. The chair went on to win awards from the Industrial Designers Society of America and it really caught on in New York and in the Silicon Valley. Today the chair is regarded entirely differently and new focus groups even give it good reviews. Sometimes you need to be able to follow your gut instincts and convince a client that your work may be a little bit experimental or unheard of, but it will make big waves and more importantly it will serve their needs.
Of course, I want to caution you to listen to your customers because sometimes you could be off the mark and have produced a dud, but if you have been in the freelance business for awhile you develop a sense for these things. Now all you have to do is convince your client that your sixth sense is right.
Never again should you have to worry about second guessing what your customers really want, when they say they want something else. You can use these three techniques to analyze what motivates your client deep down, create prototypes to give them a chance to make changes, and finally, you might need to convince them to go with your experienced judgment!
Nathalie Lussier is a recent Software Engineering graduate who has had a passion for freelancing since her early days on the Internet. She shows people how to regain their innate power and flourish by expanding their possibilities at http://www.billionairewoman.com.






















Joe Norton
June 5th, 2008
Good point about the Aeron chairs. Thought I’m not a big fan.
Phillipe Calmet
June 5th, 2008
Great and useful article…. as always.
Hyder
June 5th, 2008
Nice post.
Going off topic here, but why exactly are none of the posts showing up in my feed reader? I use Netvibes, anyone else have the same problem?
eberlin
June 5th, 2008
Hyder, like you, I am going off topic. I am having the same problem. The feeds are not turning up in my reader. I use NetNewsWire.
I have been missing my daily thoughts for the day.
David Zemens - 1955 Design
June 5th, 2008
Nathalie Lussier has written a very nice article with useful information. However, does she *really* think the year 2001 was the early days of the internet?
Melek
June 5th, 2008
i went thru this exact thing about 4 days ago. met with client. he wanted a logo. but not a logo that looked anything like his other company’s logo. not the same colors or subject matter (altho they were similarly aligned). so i did something different, hip, and eye-catching. and he came back with “no, i think i want it to be more like my other company’s logo….just like it in fact”. Awesome.
i thought i was thorough in the meeting. i thought i knew him from working with him before. but i think now i realize he’s afraid of anything new. he’s older, so maybe i should have thought about that too.
not sure how to deal with that issue exactly. i will, however, still get paid
Alex Holt
June 5th, 2008
This brings up an interesting point.
As a freelancer you are providing a professional service which you (should) know more about than your client. From the word go, i always stress to my clients that I am a professional and that i will only give them advice if i think it is important. That way, when they ask you for bright pink blinking text on a magenta background, you can start your “that’s stupid” response by saying, “as an expert.. i really think this is a bad idea.. and i think you should trust me”. Once you’ve laid down the law, you’ll find that clients are grateful for your candid advice
Chris
June 5th, 2008
The one frustration I always have with my clients is they tell me they want whatever they think I can do for the least cost. It’s virtually impossible to get them to articulate their bottom-line needs; what they want to tell me is their vision of a cheap solution to a problem they won’t discuss with me in depth.
What usually ends up happening is a process I like to call “spec by problem log”. We deliver what the client asked for, they point out the “deficiencies” (which are really just features / functions they didn’t think to include in their proposed design because they didn’t fully understand how our software operates), we send them a revision, and the process gets repeated until the client gets what they really need. It always ends up costing them more money than if they had just let us sit in on the initial business planning meetings so we could learn what problem they were trying to solve in the first place.
Alek
June 5th, 2008
This is an excellent post. Understanding what a client REALLY wants is a very fundamental issue for freelancers. I’ve been in the exact same situation many times where I offered an alternative to copying a site the client likes, and my design was actually more successful at meeting their needs. To understand a clients needs BEYOND what they are able to tell you is definitely something that gets easier and easier with experience. But it’s a lesson we all learn many times.
Jacki Hollywood Brown
June 5th, 2008
GREAT POST
I had a similar problem with one of my clients. I was trying to help her get her bills organized so she could pay them on time. Nothing I set up seemed to work for her until she said, “I just want my bills to be paid!” Finally I realized she didn’t actually WANT to pay them. I sent her to the bank with instructions to set up all of her bills (utilities, phone, internet, etc.) on an equal billing system with
pre-authorized payments out of a bank account she set up just to deal with her bills. Worked like a charm and she never had to pay late fees again.
Sometimes you have to listen to what your clients DON’T say.
Maicon
June 5th, 2008
I will utilize this topics. Thank you!
Nathalie Lussier
June 6th, 2008
Thanks for all the kind comments everyone!
@David Zemens - 1955 Design: I wasn’t sure how to explain 2001, since it wasn’t the start of the Internet but it’s still a far cry from 2008.
I hope my ideas will help others when dealing with clients in the future!
bugsy
June 7th, 2008
i’ve been struggling with this a lot lately with one client of mine. useful post, but still not sure what i’ll be able to get across. sometimes, even though i despise it, i still have to work from inside the box.
Estuardo Choc
July 11th, 2008
Very useful! At this moment I’m having a very similar problem with a client, she knows what don’t want for her website but at the same time she doesn’t like what she needs -that is exactly what I think she wants-, so this is very weird for me, cause she don’t like my propositions and we don’t know what to do. I tell to my freelance friends everything and nobody loves that lady anymore -at least my circle gives me the reason hehe-. Thanks for the help, I’ll try to use your tips with her.